ahc眼霜适合什么年龄段:How can we have more friends

12 Tips for Making and Keeping Friends

Reach out. Don't always wait for someone else to make the first move. A simple "hi" and a smile go a long way.
Get involved. Join clubs that interest you. Take special classes inside or outside of school. Be a volunteer.
Let people know that you're interested in them. Don't just talk about yourself; ask questions about them.
Be a good listener. Look at people while they're talking to you. Pay attention to what they say.
Risk telling people about yourself. When it feels right, let them in on your interests, your talents, and what's important to you. BUT...
Don't be a show-off. Not everyone you meet will have your abilities and interests. (On the other hand, you shouldn't have to hide them - which you won't, once you find friends who like and appreciate you.)
Be honest. Tell the truth about yourself, what you believe in, and what you stand for. When asked for your opinion, be sincere. Friends appreciate truthfulness in each other. BUT...
Be kind. There are times when being tactful is more important than being totally honest. The truth doesn't have to hurt.
Don't just use your friends as sounding boards for your problems. Include them in the good times, too.
Do your share of the work. That's right, work. Any relationship takes effort. Don't always depend on your friends to make the plans and carry all the weight.
Be accepting. Not all of your friends have to think and act like you do. (Wouldn't it be boring if they did?)
Learn to recognize the so-called friends you can do without. Some people get so lonely that they put up with anyone - including friends who aren't really friends at all.
Friendship Boosters and Busters Ask girls, "What makes someone a good friend?" Invite them to think about their own friends and what they like most about them. Write their ideas on the chalkboard under the heading "Friendship Boosters." Below are some examples you can add:

A good friend is always there for you.

A good friend is someone who listens.

A good friend is someone who likes you for who you are.

A good friend is someone you can trust.

A good friend is honest.

A good friend encourages you to do and be your best.

A good friend is someone who understands you.

A good friend is someone who shares with you.

A good friend respects your property.

A good friend respects your rights.

A good friend is fair.

Next, ask girls, "What kinds of things can hurt a friendship or keep people from making friends?" Write their ideas on a large piece of paper under the heading "Friendship Busters." Add these examples: